Monday, October 20, 2008

Can a Ghanaian be happy with Obroni?

Just came over this article this evening... Some "truths" about black/white relationship just got thrown in my face, though some has real truth in it. I dont know if Im supposed to feel insulted, sad or enlightened.
Read and share your opinion...

http://www.modernghana.com/news/166921/1/black-and-white-marriages.html

I especially like the advice to the Ghanaian man on what he has to learn if he is gonna be married to an obroni:

"A Ghanaian married to a white must learn to show affection openly. He must be less overbearing and controlling. He must accept to rotate domestic chores and live by strict schedule. He must learn to talk freely about sex, have sex by mutual consent and treat his wife like a queen."

Have sex by mutual consent.. My oh my. What a sacrifice.

4 comments:

Nana Yaw Asiedu said...

You certainly like the last thing you read/wrote, no?

Yngvild said...

I hope you mean the "treat her like a queen"-thing. I thought that was an African thing really, in the west we are trying to be so equal that the old-fashioned stuff that will be the same as treating women like WOMEN is actually out of fashion. Unfortunately. :-)

posekyere said...

Hi Yngvild!
A Ghanaian can be happy with an Obroni as much as with any person of another culture.
Tie him down with lots of love and he will become addicted.
That,I affirm, is where the secret resides.

Thaks for your post.

Yngvild said...

Thanks for that advice, Posekyere :)

Though I think he is addicted already... ;-)